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For me, the DSM-IV was helpful as a research tool. I found the
disorder descriptions explained what I went through at the hands of my
abuser. I was also finally allowed the opportunity to look outside of
blaming myself for what happened in the relationship. That as a general
rule the abuser has some serious issues that need to be addressed via
the medical profession, not through undying love and devotion.
Excerpts from DSM-IV on Abusive & Cultic Personalities
Antisocial Personality Disorder
Diagnostic Features
The essential feature of Antisocial Personality Disorder is a pervasive
pattern of disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others that
begins in childhood or early adolescence and continues into adulthood.
This pattern has also been referred to as psychopathy, sociopathy, or
dyssocial personality disorder. Because deceit and manipulation are
central features of Antisocial Personality Disorder, it may be
especially helpful to integrate information acquired from systematic
clinical assessment with information collected from collateral sources.
For this diagnosis to be given, the individual must be at least age 18
years and must have had a history of some symptoms of Conduct Disorder
before age 15 years. Conduct Disorder involves a repetitive and
persistent pattern of behaviour in which the basic rights of others or
major age-appropriate societal norms or rules are violated. The specific
behaviours characteristic of Conduct Disorder fall into one of four
categories: aggression to people and animals, destruction of property,
deceitfulness or theft, or serious violation of rules.
The pattern of antisocial behaviour continues into adulthood.
Individuals with Antisocial Personality Disorder fail to conform to
social norms with respect to lawful behaviour. They may repeatedly
perform acts that are grounds for arrest (whether they are arrested or
not), such as destroying property, harassing others, stealing, or
pursuing illegal occupations. Persons with this disorder disregard the
wishes, rights, or feelings of others. They are frequently deceitful and
manipulative in order to gain personal profit or pleasure, (e.g., to
obtain money, sex, or power). They may repeatedly lie, use an alias, con
others, or malinger. A pattern of impulsivity may be manifested by a
failure to plan ahead. Decisions are made on the spur of the moment,
without forethought, and without consideration for the consequences to
self or others; this may lead to sudden changes of jobs, residences, or
relationships. Individuals with Antisocial Personality Disorder tend to
be irritable and aggressive and may repeatedly get into physical fights
or commit acts of physical assault (including spouse beating or child
beating). Aggressive acts that are required to defend oneself or someone
else are not considered to be evidence for this item. These individuals
also display a reckless disregard for the safety of themselves or
others. This may be evidenced in their driving behaviour (recurrent
speeding, driving while intoxicated, multiple accidents). They may
engage in sexual behaviour or substance use that has a high risk for
harmful consequences. They may neglect or fail to care for a child in a
way that puts the child in danger.
Individuals with Antisocial Personality Disorder also tend to be
consistently and extremely irresponsible. Irresponsible work behaviour
may be indicated by significant periods of unemployment despite
available job opportunities, or by abandonment of several jobs without a
realistic plan for getting another job. There may also be a pattern of
repeated absences from work that are not explained by illness either in
themselves or in their family. Financial irresponsibility is indicated
by acts such as defaulting on debts, failing to provide child support,
or failing to support other dependents on a regular basis. Individuals
with Antisocial Personality Disorder show little remorse for the
consequences of their acts. They may be indifferent to, or provide a
superficial rationalization for, having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from
someone (e.g., "life's unfair,' 'losers deserve to lose," or "he had it
coming anyway"). These individuals may blame the victims for being
foolish, helpless, or deserving their fate; they may minimize the
harmful consequences of their actions; or they may simply indicate
complete indifference. They generally fail to compensate or make amends
for their behaviour. They may believe that everyone is out to "help
number one" and that one should stop at nothing to avoid being pushed
around.
Associated Features and Disorders
Individuals with Antisocial Personality Disorder frequently lack empathy
and tend to be callous, cynical, and contemptuous of the feelings,
rights, and sufferings of others. They may have an inflated and arrogant
self-appraisal (e.g., feel that ordinary work is beneath them or lack a
realistic concern about their current problems or their future) and may
be excessively opinionated, self-assured, or cocky. They may display a
glib, superficial charm and can be quite voluble and verbally facile
(e.g., using technical terms or jargon that might impress someone who is
unfamiliar with the topic). Lack of empathy, inflated self-appraisal,
and superficial charm are features that have been commonly included in
traditional conceptions of psychopathy and may be particularly
distinguishing of Antisocial Personality Disorder in prison or forensic
settings where criminal, delinquent, or aggressive acts are likely to be
nonspecific. These individuals may also be irresponsible and
exploitative in their sexual relationships, They may have a history of
many sexual partners and may never have sustained a monogamous
relationship. They may be irresponsible as parents, as evidenced by
malnutrition of a child, an illness in the child resulting from a lack
of minimal hygiene, a child's dependence on neighbours or nonresident
relatives for food or shelter, a failure to arrange for a caretaker for
a young child when the individual is away from home, or repeated
squandering of money required for household necessities. These
individuals may receive dishonourable discharges from the armed
services, may fail to be self-supporting, may become impoverished or
even homeless, or may spend many years in penal institutions.
Individuals with Antisocial Personality Disorder are more likely than
people in the general population to die prematurely by violent means
(e.g., suicide, accidents, and homicides).
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Individuals with this disorder may also experience dysphoria, including
complaints of tension, inability to tolerate boredom, and depressed
mood. They may have associated Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders,
Substance-Related Disorders, Somatization Disorder, Pathological
Gambling, and other disorders of impulse control, Individuals with
Antisocial Personality Disorder also often have personality features
that meet criteria for other Personality Disorders, particularly
Borderline, Histrionic, and Narcissistic Personality Disorders. The
likelihood of developing Antisocial Personality Disorder in adult life
is increased if the individual experienced an early onset of Conduct
Disorder (before age 10 years) and accompanying
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. Child abuse or neglect,
unstable or erratic parenting, or inconsistent parental discipline may
increase the likelihood that Conduct Disorder will evolve into
Antisocial Personality Disorder.
Prevalence
The overall prevalence of Antisocial Personality Disorder in community
samples is about 3% in males and about 1% in females. Prevalence
estimates within clinical settings have varied from 3% to 30%, depending
on the predominant characteristics of the populations being sampled.
Even higher prevalence rates are associated with substance abuse
treatment settings and prison or forensic settings.
American Psychiatric Association. (c) 1994. Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders, fourth edition. Washington, DC: American
Psychiatric Association.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for
admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and
present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the
following:
(1) has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g.,
exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as
superior without commensurate achievements)
(2) is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power,
brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
(3) believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be
understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status
people (or institutions)
(4) requires excessive admiration
(5) has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of
especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her
expectations
(6) is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to
achieve his or her own ends
(7) lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the
feelings and needs of others
(8) is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of
him or her
(9) shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
American Psychiatric Association. (c) 1994. Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders, fourth edition. Washington, DC: American
Psychiatric Association.
Intermittent Explosive Disorder
Several discrete episodes of failure to resist aggressive impulses that
result in serious assaultive acts or destruction of property. The degree
of aggressiveness expressed during the episodes is grossly out of
proportion to any precipitating psychosocial stressors. The aggressive
episodes are not better accounted for by another mental disorder (e.g.,
Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, a
Psychotic Disorder, a Manic Episode, Conduct Disorder, or
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) and are not due to the direct
physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, a
medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., head trauma,
Alzheimer's disease).
American Psychiatric Association. (c) 1994. Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders, fourth edition. Washington, DC: American
Psychiatric Association.
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Have you or someone you know ever experienced the following by a boyfriend, husband or intimate
partner?
- name-calling or put-downs
- isolation from family or friends
- withholding of money
- actual or threatened physical harm
- sexual assault
These are examples of domestic violence, which includes partner violence, family violence, spouse abuse, child abuse, battering, and wife beating.
This violence takes many forms, and can happen once in a while or all the time. Although each situation is different, there are common warning signs - "red flag" behaviors - to look out for, including those behaviors listed above (see Section 4 for a list). Knowing these signs is an important step in preventing and stopping violence.
In this booklet, we will focus on domestic violence as partner violence, defined as violent or controlling behavior by a person toward a partner, usually a wife, girlfriend, or lover. Although the partner is the primary target, violence is often directed toward children as well, and sometimes toward family members, friends, and even bystanders in attempts to control their partner.
Approximately 95 percent of the victims of domestic violence are women. However, violence also happens in both gay and lesbian relationships. and in a small number of cases, by women against men.
4. Warning List
This list identifies a series of behaviors typically demonstrated by batterers and abusive people. All of these forms of abuse, psychological, economic, and physical - come from the batterer's
desire for power and control. The list can help you recognize if you or someone you know is in a violent relationship. check off those behaviors that apply to the relationship. The more checks on
the page, the more dangerous the situation may be.
Emotional and Economic Attacks
*Destructive Criticism/Verbal Abuse: Name-calling; mocking; accusing; blaming; yelling; swearing; making humiliating remarks or gestures.
*Pressure Tactics: Rushing you to make decisions through "guilt-tripping" and other forms of intimidation; sulking; threatening to withhold money; manipulating the children; telling you what to
do.
*Abusing Authority: Always claiming to be right (insisting statements are "the truth"); telling you what to do; making big decisions; using "logic."
*Disrespect: Interrupting; changing topics; not listening or responding; twisting your words; putting you down in front of other people; saying bad things about your friends and family.
*Abusing Trust: Lying; withholding information; cheating on you; being overly jealous.
*Breaking Promises: Not following through on agreements; not taking a fair share of responsibility; refusing to help with child care or housework.
*Emotional Withholding: Not expressing feelings; not giving support, attention, or compliments; not respecting feelings, rights, or opinions.
*Minimizing, Denying & Blaming: Making Light of behavior and not taking your concerns about it seriously; saying the abuse didn't happen; shifting responsibility for abusive behavior;
saying you caused it.
*Economic Control: Interfering with your work or not letting you work; refusing to give you or taking your money; taking your car keys or otherwise preventing you from using the car;
threatening to report you to welfare or other social service agencies.
* Self-Destructive Behavior: Abusing drugs or alcohol; threatening suicide or other forms of self-harm; deliberately saying or doing things that will have negative consequences (e.g., telling off
the boss)..
* Isolation: Preventing or making it difficult for you to see friends or relatives; monitoring phone calls; telling you where you can and cannot go..
* Harassment: Making uninvited visits or calls; following you; checking up on you; embarrassing you in public; refusing to leave when asked..
Acts of Violence
* Intimidation: Making angry or threatening gestures; use of physical size to intimidate; standing in doorway during arguments; out shouting you; driving recklessly..
* Destruction: Destroying your possessions (e.g., furniture); punching walls; throwing and/or breaking things..
* Threats: Making and/or carrying out threats to hurt you or others..
* Sexual Violence: Degrading treatment based on your sex or sexual orientation; using force or coercion to obtain sex or perform sexual acts..
* Physical Violence: Being violent to you, your children, household pets or others; Slapping; punching; grabbing; kicking; choking; pushing; biting; burning; stabbing; shoots; etc..
* Weapons: Use of weapons, keeping weapons around which frighten you; threatening or attempting to kill you or those you love..
from "Domestic Violence: The Facts" - A Handbook to STOP violence (courtesy of Peace At Home (formerly Battered Women Fighting Back), Boston)
Cults come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Categories of cults that are recruiting successfully today include:
Eastern meditation: characterized by belief in God-consciousness, becoming one with God. The leader usually distorts and Eastern-based philosophy or religion. Members sometimes learn to disregard worldly possessions and may take on an ascetic lifestyle. Techniques used: meditation, repeated mantras, altered states of consciousness, trance states.
Religious: marked by belief in salvation, afterlife, sometimes combined with an apocalyptic view. The leader reinterprets the Scriptures and often claims to be a prophet if not the messiah. Often the group is strict, sometimes using physical punishments such as paddling and birching, especially on children. Members are encouraged to spend a great deal of time proselytizing. (Note: included here are Bible-based neo-Christian and other religious cults, many considered syncretic since they combine beliefs and practices). Techniques used: speaking in tongues, chanting, praying, isolation, lengthy study sessions, many hours spent evangelizing, "struggle" (or criticism) and confession sessions.
Political, racist, terrorist: fueled by belief in changing society, revolution, overthrowing the "enemy" or getting rid of evil forces. The leader professes to be all-knowing and all-powerful. Often the group is armed and meets in secret with coded language, handshakes, and other ritualized practices. Members consider themselves an elite cadre ready to go to battle. Techniques used: paramilitary training, reporting on one another, guilt, fear, struggle sessions, instilled paranoia, long hours of indoctrination. -- Captive Hearts, Captive Minds, Lalich and Tobias, Hunter House, 1993.
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