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23.
"
What
is the difficulty?"
-
Whatever
he says, we talk to him for one or two minutes as needed to find out where to
start with him, which point to use.
A.
difficulty in thinking
the mantra effortlessly. (The
man may experience some pain or pressure in the head or neck whenever he thinks
the mantra.)
"In this meditation, we do not concentrate,
we do not try to think the mantra clearly. Mental repetition is not
a clear pronunciation. It is just a faint idea. We don't try to make a rhythm
of the mantra. We don't try to control thoughts. We do not wish th
at
thoughts should not come. If a thought comes, we do not try to push it out.
We don't feel sorry about it.
When a thought comes, the mind is completely absorbed in the
thought.
"When
we become aware that we are not thinking the
mantra, then we quietly come back to the mantra. Very easily we think the
mantra
and if at any moment we feel that we are forgetting it, we should not try
to persist in repeating it. Only very easily we start and take it
as it comes and do not hold the mantra if it tends to slip away.
"The
mantra may change in different ways. It can get faster or slower, louder
or softer,
clearer or fainter. Its pronunciation may change, lengthen or shorten or even
may appear to be distorted or it may not appear to change at all. In every
case, we take
it as it comes, neither anticipating nor resisting
change, just simple innocence."
- Shifting
of the mind from the mantra to the thought has been an
effortless process, shifting from
this thought to another thought that "I am off the mantra" has also
been effortless. When two shiftings have been effortless, then the third could
also be nat
urally effortless, that is, back to the mantra.
- Then
go to point
#8.
B.
He complains against thoughts and says, "Due to thoughts I can
not think the mantra effortlessly."
"There
is no need to try to stop thinking
because thoughts are a part of meditation. Even if the mind is filled with
other thoughts while the mantra is going on, there is no conflict. Our concern
is with the mantra, and if other thoughts are there along with
it, we do not mind them and we don't try to remove them. We are not concerned
with them, we innocently favor the mantra."
- Then
go to point
number
24.
C.
He complains
against noise and says, "Due to noise I cannot meditate easily."
"Noise
is no barrier to meditation. Even in a
noisy market, it is possible to be thinking thoughts and whenever we can think,
we can meditate. So one can think the mantra comfortably even though aware of
outside noises. We just innocently
favor the mantra
and do not try to resist noise in any way."
- Then
go to point
number
24.
D.
He expresses
unpleasantness, discomfort, pressure or pain anywhere in the body which is
not associated with thinking the mantra.
"Even
with this (some discomfort)
we should be able to meditate, for anyone who can think can meditate, and even
with some bodily discomfort, it's our experience that we do not lose the
natural
ability to have thoughts."
- Optional
-- If appropriate, say:
"If
you are ill in bed, you should meditate as much
as is comfortable."
-
If
the man says that due to that
sensation of pain he can not meditate, go to point number
10B.
-
If there is severe pain
(but yet the mantra continues) be sure to ask if he has seen a doctor.
- Then
go to point number
24.
E.
He indicates that he "resents" or is unsure of his mantra.
"We
will just see whether the fault is in the method of using the mantra
and if we find that the method is right and yet the meditation does not produce
the desired results, then we will consult your initiator to check the
mantra."
-
Then
go to point number
23A.
-
Checking of meditation
does
not
mean checking the mantra.
- If the
initiator is checking:
"I'll
check your mantra but first I'll check
your method of using the mantra."
-
Then
go to point number
23A.
"Close the eyes
and sit comfortably."
(2 min.)
"Open
the eyes."
(5-10
seconds)
In
such cases when the meditation has been checked and
he feels good, then remind him that:
"The mantra
is the same as before but now it is giving the desired results, therefore
we should never doubt the mantra because just now it has become clear that the
mantra is not wrong but it was the use of the mantra that was slightly
incorrect.
The mantra may
be resented due to forcing the mind on it."
- (If
meditation is still not good check him again --
return to point number
5
-- keep checking until he feels better and then check his mantra.)
24.
"Now this time when we close the
eyes, wait for a little while,
for about half a minute and then start thinking the mantra effortlessly, very
easily and comfortably. Now let's close our eyes."
(3-4 minutes)
25.
"Slowly
open the eyes."
(10 seconds)
26.
"It
was easy?"
-
If he says "yes"
go to point
#27.
-
If he says
"no" go to point
#23.
(He
will find it easier than what he did at home.)
27.
"Very good, this
is how to meditate. Now we will meditate for about ten minutes. Don't mind the
time. And when I ask you to
open the eyes, then take one or two minutes and then open the eyes slowly.
Let's
close our eyes, sit easily for about half a minute and then start
the mantra innocently."
(10 minutes)
-
If
you leave him alone, say:
"Very
good, this is how to meditate. Now I'll be going out and
you will be meditating for about ten minutes. Don't mind the time. I'll be
back.
(10 minutes) And when I ask
you to open the eyes, then take one or two minutes and then open the eyes
slowly.
Now, let's close our eyes, sit easily for about half a minute
and then start the mantra innocently."
-
Do
this with him for about half a minute before quietly
slipping out. When you come into the room, quietly sit down and wait for about
one minute and let the air settle down.
At this point you should also
close your eyes and meditate or
leave him by himself. But if you stay with him, it is advisable to glance at
his face from time to time to see that there are no signs of straining,
but actually
he may not have been straining o
n the mantra. This sign of strain may be
the expression of natural release of stress. We shall find confirmation of this
when we check the success of his meditation at the end of ten minutes.
It
is important that the checker never gives the impression that he notices
some change in the meditator. A
meditator should never feel that the checker has been watching him closely
while
he was meditating.
28.
"Now, slowly open the eyes."
(wait
10 seconds or longer)
-
Give him sufficient
time to come out of meditation.
29.
"It was easy?"
-
If
he says "yes" go to point number
29B.
-
If he says "yes" but some uncertainty
or discomfort go to point number
29C.
-
If
he says "no" go to point number
29A.
29A.
"Close the eyes, just sit easily."
(2
minutes)
"Slowly open the eyes."
(5
seconds)
"You feel easier?"
("You"
is whispered)
-
If he says "yes"
go to point number
24.
-
If
he says "no" go to point number
23.
29B.
"You experienced
how easy it is? It is easy and simple. It is just the normal, natural
process of thinking the mantra and taking it as it comes. Now, this is how we
will meditate, easily, morning and evening."
-
Then
go to point number
30.
29C.
-
If
he says "yes"
but indicates some feeling of discomfort inside in some way, ask him:
"You
feel some relaxation?"
"Maybe
it will be good to meditate for sometime
more, for about twenty minutes."
-
If
he has to go due to lack of time, tell him:
"If
you have to
go doesn't matter. Take it easy. Meditate at home in this way. If you feel that
meditation at home is good, fine. If you feel that in some way it is not
satisfactory,
then it will be good to check again tomorrow."
-
If he stays, say:
"Let's
close our eyes."
-
Wait
20 minutes or leave the
room -- and return in 20 minutes.
-
If we leave, say:
"Now
I'll be going out
and you will be meditating for about twenty minutes (or 15 minutes if that is
his time). Don't mind the time, I'll be back. And when I ask you to open
the eyes,
then take one or two minutes and sit easily for about half a minute and then
start the mantra innocently."
(20
minutes)
"Slowly
open the eyes, take a minute or two."
(wait
fifteen seconds or longer)
"It
is better?"
"You
feel easier?"
-
If
he says "no" got
to point number
23.
-
If
he says "yes" go to point
number
29B
.
-
If it
is felt that the meditator is not stable or not quite sure of the
practice, tell
him:
"I feel it will be good to check again
tomorrow after you have meditated at home."
-
Make
a provisional appointment.
As he
is about to leave say:
30.
"One
thing is very important, that we do
not try to meditate. We do not try to keep the tempo of the
mantra the same,
nor do we try to change the tempo. And, we do not concentrate against thoughts
we might have, or against noises we might hear. We do not r
esist
thoughts, we do not resist noise, we do not resist the mantra changing or
disappearing,
we do not resist anything. We take it as it comes. It is a very simple,
natural, innocent process.
When we meditate at home, we start with half a minute sitting e
asily.
That means, close the eyes about half a minute and then start the mantra
easily.
And when we want to end meditation then we stop thinking the mantra inside,
but do not open the eyes for about 2 minutes. This is very important that we
start with half
a minute of silence and end with 2 minutes of silence."
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